intentions+or+actions

“Do you define a person by their actions or their intentions, why?”

If I had to choose between intention and actions I would pick actions because I think that the action hat person commited counts not what they are going to do. If someone sayes they would do anything to become friends again I wouldn't care because they could be lieing to me. I want a true friendb to tell me the truth, not to lie to me. Heres an example: My friend ..... said to another friend of mine that I didn't take her somewhere when I went with my other friend becasue I hated her and she always tryed to be like me. Well, I didn't say that at all and now my firned is saying mean things about me and I don't like it at all. I think shes a great friend but she would know the truth is she came up to me and ask. But, no she didn't and she listened to someone else. I would be mad at her for her action on what she said. I wouldn't want to tell me something she will do in the future because she probally won't and thats like telling me a lie witch I don't want to deal with. I would just like my friend to show me that she does really want to be my friend. That's why action is more inmpotant to me than intention. Also with intention if you didn'y intend to do something think before you do or say anything.